3 Reasons You're Struggling To Meet Your Soulmate
Bridget Ferguson
I SPENT LARGE CHUNKS OF MY EARLY TO MID THIRTIES SINGLE AND FRUSTRATED.
I really wanted a loving, committed relationship and couldn't understand why I never seemed to meet men I was interested in - or in fact any men at all. Almost all my friends were women, I never got asked out on dates, and no one even flirted with me. My self-esteem wasn't great, and I felt really unlucky. I had no idea that I was the author of my own circumstances.
IT WASN'T UNTIL I HAD A SEXUAL AND SPIRITUAL AWAKENING THAT MY BLOCKS TO RELATIONSHIP SHIFTED.
So where had I been going wrong?
There are 3 massive mistakes many single women make that keep them struggling to meet their soulmate:
1. Low self-worth. There are many ways this shows up. Here are just a few of them:
Not prioritising self-care - so not looking after your health, body, emotional well-being; not making time for relaxation, fun and play
Not receiving touch - either from another through massage or hugs; or from yourself. Self-pleasuring when you are single is so important to keep your sexual energy flowing - and to receive a regular hit of oxytocin (the feel-good hormone released at orgasm)
Fear of intimacy - subconsciously avoiding relationships because you are scared of the vulnerability of real intimacy, physical or emotional (or both)
Sabotaging potentially great relationships because you are suspicious of anyone who shows interest in you
Choosing unhealthy relationships (eg being lied to, left or cheated on) because that's your comfort zone
2. Reinforcing thoughts and beliefs that create an experience you don't want
I hear so many women say that there are no good, single men left. The media loves to support this story. In almost every place I have lived - big cities, small towns, different countries - I have heard this myth perpetuated. Stop telling yourself this. It becomes your experience of reality.
3. Trying to make it happen with the mind
LOVE IS NOT A PROBLEM TO BE SOLVED, OR A PUZZLE TO BE WORKED OUT.
Trying to work it out with the mind makes it a struggle - lists and logic are not helpful here. Many women have lost touch with their feminine wisdom - which lies in the body's messages not the mind's.
GET BACK IN TOUCH WITH YOUR BODY WISDOM - AND LET GOT OF THE STRUGGLE.
If you want to learn more, I recently ran a free online workshop 3 Massive Mistakes Single Professional Women Make That Keep Them Struggling To Meet Their Soulmate. You can still register to receive the replay until Sunday 6 November 2015 midnight NSW time. Click here to receive the recording..
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BRIDGET FERGUSON, FROME, BA11 5BA, ENGLAND